I honestly believe that the majority of women have a slightly odd relationship with food. Listen, for example, to two female friends . If they succumb to the delights of the dessert trolley one will almost certainly say to the other: 'I shouldn't be having this.' In other words, she is indulging her pleasure, her palate and her hunger, but punishing herself as she does so. Recently, I eavesdropped on a group of three The first woman - Katrina - was telling her colleagues, Suzie and Caroline, that she'd had the previous weekend. 'It was awful' she said. 'I felt like death. Still...' 'Yes...' encouraged Suzie. 'Well - usual compensations...' 'I bet,' agreed Caroline. 'You look great, how did you lose? 'Four pounds,' said Katrina, not even bothering to conceal the note of pride that crept into her voice.' 'God. Fantastic. Four pounds...' Her two companions looked and sounded envious. Let's face it, most of us understand that conversation because deep down we can't help subscribing to the view of the late Duchess of Windsor when she said: 'You can never be too thin or too rich.' Even those of us who know how dangerous this kind of thinking is, still cling to it. And it is this very type of thinking - constantly, if unwittingly, being passed on to our children, nephews, nieces and young friends - which has helped to increase the feelings of n today's society. |